How does one succeed in life?

Ask yourself:

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Is it wrong that I picked to be a Christian (as a teenager/14-year-old) even with knowing all of the information about other religions/atheism?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Does not procrastinate.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Can I wear a headscarf? I am a white female but I have super curly hair, like 3B - 3C. Recently, I've been putting my hair in a pineapple and putting a headscarf around it. Is that okay? I'm not trying to appropriate any cultures.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Quia perspiciatis sed qui quidem voluptas excepturi possimus.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

How often should you forgive someone for hurting you? At what point should you cut ties?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What I need from you?

Procrastinates a lot.

What smell will you never forget?

Making more friends is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

That's it for today.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.